Late Night Bars, Strangers, & Queerness

So last night I am at a bar getting some food. There is an older man next to me. He turns in his stool and comments on my existence followed by the infamous "brother" comment, I comment back and we start a convo on yoga and fitness, it leads to this.
Dialogue:
Older man: "so you must be here to get all the ladies"
Me: *Feeling awkward* I actually don't go to bars looking for ladies
Older man: "Ahh come on", slurps beer excessively, "I'm sure a guy like you can get any girl he wants in this bar"
Me:" I actually don't look for girls, I prefer a man honestly"
Older man:" Oh, so you are a homosexual"
ME: "No I am queer"
Older man: "Wait whats the difference? like isn't it all the same thing"
Me: "No, Homosexual is a man who is interested in other men, as for me, I don't care for gender, therefore I don't like to identify as a man or women, but in terms of preference I would prefer a man and in body parts I am male-bodied "

We digress into a book about a man who looked at human sexual behaviors. The authors' final hypothesis was that humans are freaks in nature and that we all mainly steer towards the middle when it comes to sexual attraction of Masc vs Fem.
concluding dialogue
Older man: "I've learned that to meet the girls it all about saying hey"
Me: Yes saying hey is a great way to start off, but instead of looking for a girl to meet, look for a vibe, instead of looking for a body part, look for a soul"
Older man: *nearly drops his beer and looks at me as if I solved his mid-life crisis" " That is some great advice, thank you" 
he then Repeats the mantra "Look for a vibe not for a girl, that's brilliant" 

I exit and realize that I am here to help heal and to help break these binaries and stereotypes, I am a blend of the Shakti & Kali Energy, hear to destroy your old paradigms and diverse you into the shift of the New Earth frequency. I am here to teach that anything is possible when you believe. I Also realized that I have a divine purpose and that all beings deserve love, compassion, and understanding. Have a great day and much love to you all